How to Use Anal Sex Toys
Anal sex toys are a large category, widely enjoyed by men and women alike. Many people may frown upon anal sex play, but in reality, it is not only extremely orgasmic and pleasureful, but safe, clean and comfortable. Beginners may feel a little bit intimidated and shy about trying anal sex play, and this is normal. This is why beginners should start small, and work their way up to the larger anal sex toys.
If you fear anal sex but are curious about what it feels like to be stimulated anally, then consider an anal toy to experience the pleasure without the pain. A slim, short butt plug is the best way to start. Use sufficient anal lubricant and insert slowly. This may feel a slight bit uncomfortable at first, and for the first couple of tries, but after constant use, the body will get used to having a toy in the anus, and will take this only as pleasure! Like any other muscle, you must train the anus to welcome toys into it, and learn to enjoy it! Beginners are encouraged to try the Peridies Beginner Anal Sex by Aneros or Anal Beads and slowly move up to the Peridies Advanced Anal Set also made by Aneros. The Peridise Unisex Anal Toy Complete Set is also quite popular.
For men, anal tool's and butt plugs that are curved apply pressure to the prostate, which is considered to be the male G-Spot. This will stimulate a man and during intercourse; he will experience a heightened orgasm that he will crave day after day. Any curved butt plug or vibrating anal toy will suffice for stimulating the prostate gland. Some popular options are Amor Dildo and Curve.
For women, a butt plug or an anal tool will fill her anus and push against the vaginal wall, making the vagina thinner and feel tighter. This will make sex for her way more stimulating, and as for him, he will feel his partner tight around his penis, which will also stimulate him. By pushing inside the rectum, it will send waves of pleasure for her and heighten the sensations from sex or foreplay.
Anal toys are made from silicone, latex, jelly, rubber and any harder, firmer materials. They come in all shapes and sizes, from a corkscrew design to a plump penis. For beginners, a slim corkscrew shaped butt plug would be the most comfortable, as you can twist it to ease it in. An example of this would be the Dr. Joel Anal Training Kit. The most popular material for butt plugs is rubber because it is sturdy enough not to buckle when you try to insert it.
For intermediate anal users, the medium sized and fun designs will feel the most comfortable. You can also explore the different sensations from oddly shaped anal toys, like rippled shafts, bulging heads or anal vibrators. They all feel different then butt plugs and a a great way to expand your adult toys box and make your sex life better. Also try to use anal toys during masturbation for even more excitement.
Expert anal enthusiasts would enjoy products like the Glass Butt Plugs, as they warm to the body’s temperature and with ample lubricant are very pleasurable. Also worth considering are inflating anal toys and expandable butt plugs. They insert as an ordinary anal plug then with the squeeze of the hand bulb, the butt plug inflates and expands with air, filling every possible corner of the anus.
Anal beads are used by men and women, and are perfect for use during intercourse. Anal beads vary in size and shape; some are tapered for a unique sensation, and some are simply the same size through out. To use anal beads, lubricate them and then insert them into the anus. Allow the retrieval ring to hand out of the anus, and during intercourse, right before you reach your orgasm, grab the ring, or tell your partner to grab the ring, and pull the beads out. As you orgasm and the beads are sliding out, your orgasm will be more explosive and way more sensitive for an erotic and pleasing sensation.
The most popular anal sex toys are the Crystal Jelly Anal Starters and Aneros Male G-Spot Massager for Men or any slim butt plug. Any vibrating butt plug are also best sellers as the vibrating sensation in the anus brings any orgasm to the next level of enjoyment. Add a vibrating sex toy to your collection, it really is worth it!
When playing with anal toys, there are a couple of things to be aware of. Anal lubricants are important to use, as the anus does not naturally lubricate itself, and needs to be slick for comfortable insertion. The difference between anal lubricant and other types of lubricants is that anal lube is thicker, and won't smear off as easy. This means it will stay in place better to allow comfortable insertion of your anal toys. Anal lubricants are water based for an easy clean up, like the Natural Lubricant Line.
Anal sex can be dangerous if you are not careful. The anus is surrounded by delicate tissues, and if you force something that you are not ready for, you may tear these fragile tissues, which can be very uncomfortable and painful. Always start small, and work your way up to a comfortable level.
Also, avid anal sex players should clean out their anus routinely. This should be at minimum a couple of times a week, as the anus does not naturally cleanse itself like the vagina does, and needs a little bit of help. An anal douche is the best and safest way of cleaning out the anus. This works by inserting a small tube into the anus, and when squeezing the hand pump bulb, water is released and drips down the anus, flushing it out.