Choosing A Sex Toy

We have a large selection, choosing your first toy can be a difficult task. Here are some suggestions for picking out a vibrator and dildo. Before we get to those, consider three things: Function, Look & Feel, and Price.

Function

Remember the slogan: "The right tool for the job." This is important when choosing your toy.

do you want something that will vibrate, or not?

do you want a toy just for external stimulation?

do you want something you can use for penetration play as well?

do you need something that is very quiet (neighbours, kids, thin walls)?

do you tire easily and need a toy that will be lighter, or with an easily manipulated switch?

what about size and transportability?

An electric vibrator will have obvious limitations when you're traveling. Is there a specific kind of play you like? While most of our toys are safe for anal use, some are made specifically for anal play - if that's what you're looking for, why not go right to the source? The above are just a few questions you may want to ponder while you browse. As you explore our selection each description provides information about the above. And don't forget, help and suggestions are just an e-mail away, so please don't hesitate to contact use if you're confused or looking for some extra suggestions.

Look & Feel

Besides the different types of sex toy materials that toys are made of (see sections on how to choose a vibrator and how to choose a dildo), there's how they look and feel. Consider, if you're looking at vibrators, that electric vibrators are heavier than battery-powered vibrators ; and that battery-powered vibrators have either internal or external battery packs. External ones are easier to manipulate while using the vibrator, but some people don't like the extra cord and pack. Rechargeable vibrators are now gaining in popularity because they give you the best of both worlds - strong vibrations and great warranties, but without the cord!   Many dildos and some vibrators are "representational" with veins, head and balls; others, while phallic in overall shape, are completely innovative in the details. These features do add to sensation, but most people also respond to the way they look. Do you want a toy that mimics a penis, or not at all? The same is true of colour: Do you prefer a naturalistic skin colour or the funkiest, sparkliest available? This is a purely aesthetic decision (colour doesn't change how a toy feels).

Price

If it's your first toy, we suggest you start with something that isn't too expensive. Finding what's right for you may take some experimentation, and there is nothing more disappointing than spending a lot of money on a toy you don't like. The less expensive toys don't last as long, but once you figure what you like you can always invest in a better quality toy if you like.

How To Choose a Sex Toy

Function

Remember the slogan: "The right tool for the job." This is important when choosing your toy.

Do you want something that will vibrate, or not?
Do you want a toy just for external stimulation?
Do you want something you can use for penetration play as well?
Do you need something that is very quiet (neighbours, kids, thin walls)?
Do you tire easily and need a toy that will be lighter, or with an easily manipulated switch?
What about size and transportability?

Look & Feel

Many dildos and some vibrators are "representational" with veins, head and balls; others, while phallic in overall shape, are completely innovative in the details. These features do add to sensation, but most people also respond to the way they look. Do you want a toy that mimics a penis, or not at all? The same is true of colour: Do you prefer a naturalistic skin colour or the funkiest, sparkliest available? This is a purely aesthetic decision (colour doesn't change how a toy feels).

Price

Vibrator

Vibrators come in many shapes and sizes, each with their own pros and cons. Choosing the vibrator that's right for you is part process of elimination and part super fun homework assignment. Consider these questions when choosing your first or your twenty-first vibrator.

Do you want a battery powered or electric vibrator?
Are you looking for a vibrator for penetration or clitoral stimulation?
What kind of vibration are you looking for?
What material should your vibrator be made from?
How loud is your vibrator?
Do you want a vibrator for you, your partner, or both of you?

Battery Powered or Electric?

The advantages of battery-operated vibrators are that they are portable, less expensive, come in a mind-boggling array of shapes, sizes, and colours. the drawback is that they tend to break down quicker than electric vibrators.

There are some exceptions to this rule. for example, japanese rabbit vibrators, like the rabbit tend to be of significantly higher quality (and price).

Electric vibrators are generally better made, will last for years, and provide a stronger buzz. some, like the hitachi magic wand, need to be plugged in, but others, like the lelo Ella, are rechargeable and less bulky.

Vibrator for Penetration or Clitoral Stimulation?

One way to choose a vibrator is based on how you want to use it. Most people prefer hard plastic vibrators for external clitoral stimulation, and choose soft elastomer vibrators orsilicone vibrators for penetration play. It's hard to find a vibrator that will be good for all seasons, as it were, but any soft vibrator that has a motor near the tip. The mini vibes are ideal for external stimulation.

Different Vibration Options

In the old days a vibrator buzzed, and that's all it did. these days you have what may seem like an infinite number of vibrations available to choose from.
The wand style electric vibrators, like the hitachi magic wand massager, offer a strong, thumpy, purr.
Some battery vibrators gyrate..
Mini vibrators offer a higher pitched buzz .
There are vibrators that offer a range of vibration, including escalating, rollercoaster, and pulsating.
There's no right way to go here. We always say that more versatile is better, but most people end up finding a groove and sticking with it.

Choosing a Vibrator Material

Whether it's a hard plastic vibrator or silicone rubber vibrator. Choosing the right vibe can be about finding a material that works for you. While many people don't react to less expensive rubbers, these materials contain chemicals that may cause immediate allergic reactions, or may have longer term concerns that we aren't completely sure of at this moment.

If you have sensitive skin, live with environmental allergies or multiple-chemical sensitivities, or if you're concerned about what you put in and on your body, you might want to read up on our different sex toy materials and be sure you're using a toy that you can feel good about after it stops buzzing.

Noise Levels of Vibrators

Most vibrators make a buzzing noise, but not all vibrators are created equal when it comes to noise level. The soft rubber vibrators tend to be quieter than hard plastic vibrators. If you have any specific questions be sure to ask before you buy.

A Vibrator for You, Your Partner, or Both?

Finding the right vibrator means thinking about how you want to use it. If you're looking for a vibrator for you and your partner to use, do you want a wearable vibrator that can either go on a penis, on a finger, or around a waist? Do you want a vibe with a nice long handle that will fit nicely between two (or more) bodies? Also, when shopping for a vibrator for you and your partner, don't forget that what it looks like may be important. Your best bet is to talk about it in advance, and use our website to browse the toys. You can even suggest that each of you build a wish list and surprise each other with one item off each of your lists.

Dildo

Choosing the right dildo comes down to three key elements: shape/size/colour, material, and harness compatibility. Finding just the right dildo when you're shopping for you and a partner can be a challenge, often times the best dildo is two, one for each of you. Here are some ideas to get you thinking about selecting the dildo that fits your fantasy: What is the perfect shape, size and colour of your dream dildo? What material do you want your dildo to be made from?

Dildo Materials

Dildos are available in a variety of materials, each with their own pros and cons.

Silicone rubber dildos are our first choice for quality, variation in shape, size, and colour, and ease of cleaning.
Jelly rubber dildos are inexpensive and can be great beginner toys, as long as you use a condom on your toy.
There are several variations in cyberskin dildos, but they all offer an incredibly soft feel, without the high cost of silicone vixskin toys. as with plain rubber toys we recommend using condoms on your cyberskin dildos.
We like to think of our metal and glass dildos as 'special occasion' sex toys. they have a durability and feel that is unparalleled, but their intensity may not be for every day use.
Some people are concerned about the safety of sex toy materials, and if you're interested we suggest reading up on the safety of sex toy materials, and things to consider if you have allergies or multiple chemical sensitivities.

Double Dildo

While you're goal may be to find the perfect double dildo you need to remember that there's no such thing as the perfect double dildo. Because they are inanimate toys designed to fit in between two animate bodies, double dildos require more than just brilliant design and the right material. They require humour, patience, and even a bit of love. That said, there are a few things to consider when choosing a double dildo that will increase your chances of finding the right one for you.

First Timers

In most cases we recommend people start inexpensive when they are buying their first new sex toy. We have some double dildos made from inexpensive rubber. The draw back is that you need to use condoms on these dildos and they tend to be of poor design.

Size and Shape

Choosing the right shape and size is probably the most important part of choosing the right double dildo. Some dildos will have different sized ends, which can be great if you and your partner have different tastes. All dildo dimensions are listed on our site, so if you know the size of dildo you like it's easy to find the best double dildo for you. In terms of shape, he big distinction is between straight dildos and dildos that have a curve or crescent shape. Many people prefer the curved dildos, saying they facilitate more physical contact and more options for sex positions.

Material, Quality, and Cost

Double dildos are made from inexpensive jelly and plain rubbers, from 100% silicone, and from harder materials like acrylic. Probably the best place to start is with your budget. Better quality materials last longer, are safer to use, and much easier to keep clean. But they are also more than twice the price. If you're going with an inexpensive material we recommend you always use condoms.

Is it safe to use sex toys such as vibrators during pregnancy?

One study concluded that there was no evidence that most sexual positions and sexual activities were harmful while pregnant, although this study also identified the need for more research in this area. Certainly, if you are having a normal, healthy pregnancy, there is no need for you to stop having sex during pregnancy.

One thing is certain, however: whenever there is any sexual activity involving anal intercourse, you must take the precaution of ensuring that the penis, or any other object, is not inserted into the vagina afterwards. The reason for this is the increased risk of bacteria being transferred between the bowel and the vagina. The baby is protected from infection during pregnancy by the bag of membranes that surround it. However, once these membranes rupture (or pop: your waters breaking), that natural barrier against infection is lost and the risk of the unborn baby becoming infected are greatly increased.

If using sex toys is a normal part of your sex life, there should be no reason for you to stop using them if you have a healthy, uncomplicated pregnancy. Just take care to keep any sex toys clean and don't mix orifices!

Male G-Spot Vibrators - Stimulating the Male G-Spot

The male g-spot vibrator is a male sex toy that helps stimulate the male prostate gland. The male prostate is the g-spot in men. Its stimulation helps men experience the kind of earth shattering orgasms experienced by women as a result of clitoral or vaginal stimulation. A typical g-spot vibrator is a curved device that needs to be inserted into your anal cavity. The vibrations help stimulate the region inducing intense sexual sensations. Stimulating the male g-spot also brings with it a range of health benefits as well. It helps in the ´milking´ of the prostate that helps get rid of the accumulated fluid of the prostate. A prostate massage helps improve the functioning of the prostate.

Cock Ring - Pleasuring both Men and Women

Cock rings emerged on the scene as sex toys that helped men get a firmer and longer lasting erection. The cock rings available today have added a new element to the proceedings. They now pleasure both men and women. Vibrating cock rings are advanced cock rings that help turn a penis into a vibrator. There are also vibrating bumps that help stimulate the clitoris. Such cock rings not only make the penis erect, but their vibrating mechanism stimulates the women as well as the men. The resulting orgasm is out of this world for both the partners.

The TENGA Range of Male Masturbators

The Tenga range of male masturbators is fast making its presence felt in the world of masturbators. Its unique approach and the realistic sensations offered, make the Tenga Onacups a very popular choice amongst men who want to take their masturbation to new heights in terms of intensity of stimulation. Typically, Tenga male masturbators are single-use masturbators that are made from a molded variety of silicone wherein each cup comes with its own lubricant. Over time the company has also developed reusable masturbators such as the Flip Hole that features a re-usable flip open mechanism helpful in easy cleaning of the device.

Male Sex Toys vs. Female Sex Toys

You can´t have an 'us versus them' approach when it comes to sex toys. Both male and female sex toys are different and focus on different regions. Yes, you can get creative with their usage; use your female vibrator to stimulate your man. As a man, you can use your toy to stimulate the woman, by adding a dash of creativity to the proceedings.